I'm at a loss at what to do and hoping you ladies can help me out with your advice and experiences.
I have a beautiful little boy 21 months who is the apple of my eye. We have been trying to give him a sibling since he was 1.
He is an IVF boy, first round and we know we where extremely lucky. I have now been through 2 fresh cycles of the first one resulting in 1 egg, which fertilized but didn't stick. we had a month off then last month we got 3 eggs, but only 1 egg made it to day 5 and again resulted in a bfn
I'm devastated to say the least, we said that our last round would be our last round regardless of what happens. Mainly because the injections mess alot with me and I always have a really rough time at egg pick up. The money comes into account for me, but my DH says that it really shouldn't as we can always earn more... We are with Genea and have been with our OB (also our fertility dr) for 6 years so I really don't want to change clinics. Even though we are out of pocket over $3500 each go.
So I don't know what to do. I would really like to have another baby, mainly as I want my boy to have a sibling and also I always thought we would have 2 kids. Having said that, I have hardly any support to help out and know it would be a strain on me and DH, but surely only for 6-8 months until we all settle into a routine and DS adjusts to a new bubba in the house. I do worry that I will get PND again and expect too.
My question is, when did you know your last IVF cycle would be? how do you determine this? Do you just keep going until there where no eggs? Should I just be happy with have one healthy child as alot of women would give their left arm for just one. TIA