Let's say that your DH needed to hire an assistant to work directly under him at his workplace. Out of all the members in his team, the best candidate is, both on paper and for personal chemistry, an older woman. A woman your DH has casually mentioned as being attractive. Upon meeting this woman you find she is not wearing a wedding ring but is in a committed relationship with a younger co-worker (12mths) You are in a happy healthy marriage of 5years and have no real reason to distrust your DH... This woman is warm, bubbly and dresses in a professional manner that flaters her body and natural look....but isn't explicitly flirting with your DH when your around, and he's never mentioned her doing such behavior. With this situation, knowing that he will be spending more waking hours at work, working closely and one on one with an attractive woman, who he is her boss (position of power).....than he does with you (normal with career men in marriages)....what is your comfort level with this situation?