I have a 2yo DS and an 8 month old DD and have just found myself UTD. It was a total shock as I have required fertility help for both other pregnancies. We always only planned on 2 kids, I have PND managed by anti depressants, have just quit my high paying job to start a business which requires a lot of my time and DH and I are rebuilding our relationship after infidelity while I was pregnant with DD.
I really don't know what to do. I'm so scared of not coping with a 3rd, with 3 under 3, and our relationship may not survive another pregnancy. Financially we will struggle, a lot. I'm assuming we will be entitled to assistance from Centrelink but have no idea as we have not had the need in the past.
I guess what I am asking is, has anyone been in a similar position and what have you done? How hard is it going from 2 to 3? Especially with them all being so young? No judgement please, termination is a possibility but I just don't know how I feel about that at this stage.... Help!!