Lilietak Congratulations for your BFP!! Great news!
Baolovesludo many congratulations on the birth of your twins!! Enjoy your time..
Kelly 77 great news.. Very happy for you..
hope the other bfp bfp ladies are doing well
Sophdask, Straycat , Cevapa. Kelly 70...How are you girls travelling.
AFM.... Had been feeling really down from the 2nd bfn .thanks to all the girls who have lended support during this time...... Had a meeting with lynn today.. She said it's very unusual for normal PGD embryos to not work.. It's a kind of mystery why it didn't work, but she is hopeful that one day we will get there, said that the uterine environment is not the problem as she has checked everything, most probably , the embryos lacked the energy to divide, like lacked the metabolism to divide.. That is why the sucess rate with PGD normal embies is also 60 percent and not 100 percent. She said that its a matter of trying again.
We have 2 frozen blasts which we sent for PGD which came as inconclusive results. She said what do u want to do next? We said we are a bit confused. Then She has suggested a double transfer with these 2 in january and if they don't stick, we will do a new stimulated cycle in February ... She said the good thing is thAt u are able to make blasts ...... So that u can try..... Also said u seem to be too exhausted from the experiences u had with mivf( transferring day 2 embys which stuck to miscarry later due to which we did PGD). These 2 are day 5 blastocysts..and according to her most of the ones with aneuploidy don't get to this stage and all that... . So So confused....I mean I seriously think that we are in the same position after spending so much on PGD and even after getting normal results... Nothing is certain I guess.. I guess uncertainty comes as a package when u jump in the ivf train.., even PGD normal embies could miscarry without any reason... So scared that if the embies stick and if they are not normal or if there is some problem, then again we need to take the same **** steps, then I guess. The uncertainty is with everybody in every pregnancy, I think I just need to pick up myself and try all this without fear....
sorry for for the long post... Just can't make up my mind what to do next...