Im coping pretty well with ds during the day now, but im still struggling big time during the evenings.
Ds has a feed sometime around 5 or 6 (demand feeding so whenever but its usually sometime around then) & then he will not go to sleep. He just starts screaming & can continue on & off for hours most evenings.
He will not settle for me so dh has to spend hours settling him. But if he's home late this can be a big problem cause both ds & I are so distressed by the time he gets home.
I immediately get really anxious when ds starts screaming cause when he gets really upset he usually chokes on his own saliva & goes limp & floppy for a few seconds (I dont think he stops breathing) & it terrifies me, especially when im here by myself, so I feel like I never want him to cry.
What can I do to make the evenings better?
Dh usually gets a call from me basically in tears asking when he'll be home & if he says he's going to be late I usually end up cracking it at him. I know thats not fair but its just so hard
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