Very true @straycat. I didn't think IVF could do that...always thought it would put strain on the relationship but it really has brought us closer.
@TeamCarts - when i had my hysteroscopy it was to have the polyp removed at the same time and my FS said it didn't matter when in the cycle it was done. Even if you have AF! And because it gives you a fresh lining, my FS wanted me to go straight into my first cycle a week after the procedure