So sorry to hear that @babygirl7 I know how devastating it is. Take some time to grieve for your little one, it tried its hardest. Hopefully, like me your next FET will stick like glue. xoxo
Hope EPU goes well @MrsTugs!
Afm, had my BT this morning, and just waiting for the phone call. I know it's a bfn, but at least once the official results are through we can move on and plan our next steps.
Thanks ladies. Chilling out in the waiting room now.
Aaaand it's an official negative for me. Completely expected, but it's still not the funnest phone call to receive. Blech. My FN is so lovely and compassionate but I find it makes it worse! It just makes me want to cry. I wish she would just be business-like and get it over with so I could keep it together easier. But that's probably just me. I'm sure lots of people appreciate her kind approach
Going to see the FS next week to talk about where to from here. Sigh.
so sorry @MrsChino that's really cr@p news
I know what you mean about it making you feel worse. My previous FS would be so sincere and sympathetic I would have to hold back the tears at times. My current FS is a little bit of a jolly type of person and I have a much easier time of talking about things a bit less emotionally. Still, perhaps it helps in the long run to get the emotions out.
Hope your FS can help you with a plan to move forward. BTW I never have any embryos to freeze either. It really sucks.
I know in the scheme of things 2 attempts is not much, so I'm trying to remind myself it's a marathon not a sprint.
All the very best for your November cycle - I will be cheering you on from the sidelines and crossing my fingers big-time for you
@MrsChino Yes, getting pregnant seems to take a while. Unlike our fertile sisters *shakes fist at universe*
And thanks, I will take all the cheering I can get.
Do you think you can sneak another cycle in before xmas? Or will you have to wait?
@MrsTugs hope EPU went well hun & you got some good quality eggies xx
@MrsChino really sorry to hear about your BFN hun. It does make it even harder when FN's are so empathetic & compassionate about it. Obviously with good intentions tho. But yes it's 'easier' to hear the bad news like a bandaid. Big hugs to you xxx
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