Bongley, jeez some people are thick, aren't they ! I guess most people just assume that anyone can pop them out whenever they get the urge.
I did have a few people at work who knew about my ivf (bit hard to keep it quiet with all the appointments) and had to keep fielding the questions about how it was going. It just got so tiresome in the end.
After my last failed cycle back in July, I told all those people that I was not doing any more. I certainly wasn't going to tell them I was going to try a donor next - its disappointing enough having to resort to that without people asking about it EVERY time you talk to them.
No doubt if I'm successful people will say 'how did that happen' and 'were you trying' (at 42 yrs of age its still unusual really). I'm still working on my comeback - suggestions anyone ?
Literally just now (mid post) got the phone call from the clinic, donors EPU has been put back 3 days to Monday, which I kind of expected, and transfer is now next Wednesday.
This is killing me have no idea what my body is doing AF is never this late I am now 11dp5dt but still spotting but only when I wipe BT is tomorrow and I am not hopeful DP is happy cause AF hasn't arrived he thinks this has worked really want to POAS but can't bring myself to do it.
@TeamCarts good luck with BT
@Hope Is Fading - I think anything different to the usual is a good thing. I really hope it's worked for you Hun!!! C'mon we gotta have some positives this week! oh yep POAS I think it will help with relieving stress in the next 24hrs especially if it's a bfp!!!
That goes for you too @TeamCarts! I have everything crossed for you ladies
Whats your background? MFI? How old are you? I'll be 34 in two weeks so praying I get a really awesome birthday present!
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