I am new to this site and need some advice.
My husband has told me this morning that I am “just being lazy” for not intending on working full time up until the birth of our first child in May. He is usually a very kind man but I am very hurt by his comments. I’m sure it is just his ignorance on the topic, he says “other people do it”. Maybe in other professions? I work as a family day care operator caring for 4 children everyday aged from 6months to 5 years. It is an extremely busy, full on job, working 9 hour days without a break. I only want to drop one day to 4 days in the New Year which we can afford. How can I explain it to him without making the issue worse? I’m worried this will be an ongoing issue?
Thanks in advance. He really is a nice man I just need a way to explain it to his rationally. I have hip displasia and I am worried I will be in too much pain if I push myself too hard.