Congrats on your pregnancy - what a relief, you lucky thing
Oh and @harvs sorry I forgot to answer your query about terminating...I don't want to do it for a couple of reasons...firstly I fell pregnant when I thought I couldn't. My doctor told me I was a likely candidate for IVF...So if this is a one-off miracle, it would be the most ungrateful thing to do to terminate.
Also my mum has lost 2 children and would give anything to hold them again...it seems like a dishonour for me to do something so flippant as to terminate something that my mum and so many other women wish they had.
But I had considered counselling...if I don't snap out of this attitude soon I will book myself in. Thanks