So long story, a friend who was my bridesmaid is getting married in a couple of months.
For one reason or another we haven't seen much of each other over the last couple of years, she's met my dd about 3 times and I her dh to be once.
I got an email about a hens lunch which is a secondary event to a weekend away which I'm not invited to. Hmm ok she has closer people in her life atm.
I quietly start to wonder about the wedding as it's not far away and I haven't seen a save the date or anything (she's not the type to not send a save the date). She contacts me this week and asks if we can get together with our partners for dinner or something, I agree.
Wedding Invitation arrives yesterday, RSVP by end of the month.
I can't shake the feeling I was on the B list. Does it matter? Probably not. But then I'm thinking if I wasn't invited...
So turns out the wedding is midweek so I would have to take a least one day off work, probably two if we stay the night, and id also have to ask my parents to look after dd and most likely take some time of work (they'd do this in a minute if I asked).
So if you're still reading WWYD? Is that too much effort for a wedding you almost weren't invite to?