My 15 month old is 90cm tall and 15 kg. she is heavier than her 4 year old cousin :-0 She currently wears size 3/4 clothes.
She is a good eater, and mostly eats (and prefers) fruit and veg, with a little meat, snacks of yoghurt, fruit, rice crackers, dips etc. Eats a very healthy balanced diet. The only time she really overeats is 2x per week at daycare, when they allow 3 serves of lunch, but again it is all healthy, well cooked food. She is also very active. Her one bad habit is she still has 2 small bottles a day. One before bed and one during the night. We are trying to taper these off, but she is very resistant to the idea.
I know she is well above average for size, I hate people calling her big :-(
I am sure people with smaller than average children also feel judged? Or am I just being silly???