AFM, slight pink smear on tp today. This is going the same way as the last one to be honest. Borderline tests and spotting. Last time it was borderline tests, one pink smear on tp then three days later non stop spotting until my baby died three weeks later. I'm hoping to speak to my ob today about the last scan. Pretty depleted
Gah I'm just so incredibly tired..... So much work to do though
I'm so sorry that things aren't going to plan @Sally1981 - I'm hoping with my whole heart that all is ok. What did your obs say? What's the plan from here?
Me and hubby and 2.5yo makes three!
Never forget our angel twinnies👼👼
@Polly6034 and @lilyloubelle, thank you for your responses. It's the usual first trimester 'wait and see' plan. My ob said the scan looked completely normal and didn't seem fussed that the hb was just outside the normal range. He wanted me to come back for a scan in two weeks but I insisted on having one on Friday. Fact is that hb is too low and this scan is even worse than the one where I miscarried.
I've just heard some horrifying stories about natural mc lately and people having emergency situations. I spend most days alone with a toddler. If I can avoid mc naturally when I'm alone with him, then I want to do that by catching it early and having a d&c.
Of course, I'm not there yet, but I'm sick of these medicos taking a blase view of miscarriage as if it doesn't even matter.
Anyway, rant over
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