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    Don't feel guilt @squishest, we all get here through different journeys.

    Well I'm proving to already be stressed about this 'pregnancy' - bright red spotting this morning. I will test again tomorrow if no further bleeding, but worried that I let my hopes get ahead of me and made my eyes see a faint second line on my test, when really there was nothing there. After 24 hours I already had so much hope for this pregnancy and now I'm so sad that it might never have even been anything 😥😥😥


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    Oh, @Polly6034, my fingers and toes are still crossed for you <3

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    Quote Originally Posted by Polly6034 View Post
    Don't feel guilt @squishest, we all get here through different journeys.

    Well I'm proving to already be stressed about this 'pregnancy' - bright red spotting this morning. I will test again tomorrow if no further bleeding, but worried that I let my hopes get ahead of me and made my eyes see a faint second line on my test, when really there was nothing there. After 24 hours I already had so much hope for this pregnancy and now I'm so sad that it might never have even been anything 😥😥😥


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    Oh Polly no! How far along are you? It's quite common at 4 weeks...

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    Quote Originally Posted by squishest View Post
    I'm pretty new here so don't know any of you or your stories too well yet and haven't popped in since page 11 and have just read through the past 7ish pages and wish I could reach into the computer and give all of you hugs!!

    I find it hard to understand why this happens to all of you… It makes me so sad… When I was told at around 23 that I wouldn't be able to conceive, I was somewhat ok with it as I was thankful that is it were going to happen to anyone, it happened to me as I was 99% sure I didn't want children.

    Now that I am pregnant for the 2nd time in a year by accident WHILE using protection, I am more than confused but even more conflicted for women like you. I feel so terribly guilty… Don't get me wrong - I want this baby more than anything and am still broken about the mc from my last pregnancy - but the guilt tears me up while there are amazing women like you all out there. Especially when I am panicking like you all about my pregnancy lasting to term.. xx
    Don't feel guilty, we've all been on this journey via a different route and, tbh, I think a lot of girls go through a phase where they say they don't want kids, I know I did in my early 20s. Doesn't mean you can't change your mind totally and completely. And once that happens, you're just the same as anyone else trying to conceive and keep a baby xx

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    @shadowangel0205 Thanks that's actually quite comforting, here's hoping this is the new normal.
    @Polly6034 I'm still staying optimistic for you! It could be completely normal.

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    Well I'm out. This is the heaviest period I've ever had, lots of clots and needing tampon + pad. Not sure if a chemical pregnancy, or just a heavy period with my eyes imagining things, but either way, it sucks 😔


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    Quote Originally Posted by Polly6034 View Post
    Well I'm out. This is the heaviest period I've ever had, lots of clots and needing tampon + pad. Not sure if a chemical pregnancy, or just a heavy period with my eyes imagining things, but either way, it sucks 😔


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    Oh no! Honestly though, I don't think our eyes were tricking us, I think this is a chemical. It has all the hallmarks. Are you ok?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sally1981 View Post
    Oh no! Honestly though, I don't think our eyes were tricking us, I think this is a chemical. It has all the hallmarks. Are you ok?
    Thanks @Sally1981 I feel like I imagined it all so it's reassuring to hear you say that. I'm ok. I just hope for a real pregnancy, you know, with an actual baby, next time.

    How are you hun?


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    Big big hugs polly. Doesnt sound like you imagined it if u r having a really heavy af so sorry for ur loss.

    2 weeks till my scan.... im just hoping so much that everything is ok with bubs... just hoping so much. Im going to call ultrasound place to find out when they want my blood test done by... I just want to know asap of the outcome
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    Hi everyone can I please join.... again. Got my bfp today. I'm cautiously excited. I lost a baby at 21 weeks last oct and misscarried back in feb. I'm feeling so nervous and scared.

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