Hard luck Jay, so sorry to hear.
Ann I have Facebook but don't use it very often. Got sick of the all the drama.
I think about doing another cycle all the time. It was such a huge part of life before L and now I feel like I have nothing to focus on (apart from L of course). I've been thinking about going to Uni a lot lately but definitely want at least one more child. I know that I will be fine academically but doubt my ability if IVF is constantly on my mind so study will have to take a back seat for now.