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    Default Empty. Lost. Incomplete

    Woke at 1am 5/9/14 with cramping
    Went to the hospital where the doctor wasn't too worried and said to come back for an ultrasound the next day.

    Get home. Start bleeding.
    Back to hospital.
    Bloods show a decline in HCG
    Ultrasound showed a non uterine pregnancy, but they are still unsure of where the pregnancy is.

    Continuing to bleed, and facing the fact that our much loved and wanted bubba has gone.

    My partner and I are just in disbelief, we have cried solidly for hours.

    Another doctor has also found a cyst on my ovary which also could have ruptured.

    I seriously just can't stop crying

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    I'm so sorry xxxxx hugs xxxxx

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    So sorry for your loss, it must be so devastating. Thinking of you and sending you lots of hugs x

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    Very sorry to hear that

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    Big cuddle
    I'm so sorry for your loss

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    I'm so sorry

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    I don't think I've EVER felt this way and I've lost many people in my life.

    This pain is just unbearable and I wouldn't wish it upon my worst enemy.

    Thank you all so much for your support I can't tell you how much it means.

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. Try to be kind to yourself and give yourself time to grieve. Xoxo

    Sent from my C6603 using The Bub Hub mobile app

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. I miscarried just over a week ago at 7 weeks 5 days so I sort of know what you're going through, even though I know an ectopic is worse. I really hope you start to feel better soon.


 

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