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    My last BFP, which was chemical, was October 27 last year. I am really hoping this month works, but am also working on being accepting of the fact I may never have another little one.

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    @mightymama I know what you mean, I'm just avoiding the testing threads cause I don't even have the energy to put it words how crushed I'm feeling.

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    Oh @tazz475 you poor egg, please feel free to message me at anytime ok? We can be bitter together 😆

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    Haha @mightymama if only you lived in sa! We'd rain on everyone's stupid happy parade!

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    Hahahaha!! Sorry! But we can... In the privacy of our own convos my friend 😉

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    Quote Originally Posted by clucky_duck View Post
    I think after this month if I don't get a bfp, I'm going to be super disappointed with my body!!
    I mean, maybe it's meant to be! But still, it's so hard to deal with.

    Opk tests start up again soon. I've basically warned dh he better get ready to get his rocks off a lot in a week's time hahha

    So sorry to hear that @ponypal! Must be devastating. Man that'd be so hard to have a bfp and then not. Why be so cruel *sniff
    Lol I told my DH get excited he's got a big week ahead of him


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    @tazz475 and @mightymama I think it is a very acceptable feeling you both have. When I was trying for my DS I hated everyone who got pregnant. Even before trying I wanted to be trying, so i hated them also, I started to get depressed, I wanted it so bad and felt like everyone else could get what they wanted but I couldn't. I feel blessed that I did not experience a miscarriage, I can't imagine how much your heart would ache. I hope you both and @ponypal find some happiness soon with a BFP. I know I have my fingers crossed for you all. TTC is emotionally the hardest thing I have ever done and it wasn't even close to as bad of an experience as some couples experience.
    Just wanted to send you all BIG and lots of .

    To all the other ladies TTC

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    Temp stayed the same as yesterday
    I wonder if that is my O drop after all?? I checked my temp last night and it was a fair bit lower so maybe I missed the big drop, but in other good news, DH was feeling better so we got to BD I hope it was just the right time (if only it that simple)

    One of my friends is testing today I am really hoping for a BFP for her and her family, her TTC journey makes me think mine is easy. Been sending lots of positive baby thoughts

    Have a great weekend ladies and sending lots of to you all XO

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    @mightymama @tazz475 I must admit I'm feeling much the same. My journey hasn't been as long as some others and because I fell pregnant with my other 2 so easily everyone expects I will this time too. I do feel so selfish feeling the way I do because I already have 2 beautiful children while other have none so I feel like I don't have the right to feel the way I do. My sister is about to give birth and I think that is part of the reason why I feel like this...my mc child was supposed to be born 3 months ago...and my ep child was supposed to be born in Jan...so either way I was supposed to have a child with a 3 month age gap from her baby. It also makes it hard when it feels like everyone on fb is posting pics of ultrasound pics and baby bumps...don't get me wrong I'm so damn happy for them but sometimes it's like f*** why is it so hard this time!


    Sorry for the rant...I feel better now


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    It is really hard when you already have kids! I have (in my opinion) the best 2yo in the whole wide world!! So why would I want to change the dynamics of our home? Why am I so selfish when it comes to others not even having kids! My better half's cousin has has 5 failed IVF attempts and has been ttc for years. I feel so petty with my "oh wah! I'm not pregnant.. again!.." But I also feel it is a valid feeling. Pregnancy is portrayed as such an easy normal thing, everyone does it, when it's hard to reach it suuuuuuuuuuccckkkkssssss!

    I'm so glad I spoke out considering so many of us are feeling the same 😊 you can come hoing mine and Tazz475's bitter pity party 😂😂

    Here's hoping chiro and acupuncture can get me knocked up this month! Come oooorrnnnn July babeh!!

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    Passenger McBecks requesting permission to board the Bitter Boat! Lol! 😂

    I totally know how you ladies feel, don't worry! I get so green eyed when people pop in for a month or two & then get their BFP straight away. It's totally illogical but there's a little part of me that rations the less other people there are having a BFP one month, the more likely it is I'll get one! 😵😆 Isn't that ridiculous?!

    And I also know how conflicting it feels too as whilst I'm on cycle 9, I know there's lots of other Hubbers who've been trying for way longer. And like you @mightymama I do have the most amazing 2yr old who lights up my life & some others don't even have that yet.

    What a f*cking roller coaster TTC is. I'm usually such a relaxed person too. Sometimes I'll look at myself & go "who are you?", especially when I'm being super neurotic about it all.

    Can't wait till my BFP comes & I can go back to normal! 😄👍


 

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