😞 sorry to hear that @ponypal
Sorry I've been so quiet ladies, I'm struggling a little with the bfp's. I don't mean to be rude and I am so so so super happy for those utd but it kills me a little inside. I feel horrible for admitting it, but felt I need to ☺️
@Socimama I do. DH gets annoyed because he thinks i am trying to schedule sex to ovulation, but my drive is just naturally higher then, and pretty well drops off when AF is around a week away
@tassiewife think of it this way: semen is the 'vehicle' that transports sperm to the cervix, it then uses EWCM to 'climb in' once it has reached the entrance IYKWIM. it's like the sperm hops on a bus and changes to the next bus once it reaches the entrance to the cervix. Chances are what falls out hardly contains any sperm because it has 'jumped' across to your cervical mucous. Also, far more actually reaches your cervix than what you realise. it may seem like it's all falling out, but for the record, I've always had trouble conceiving, but the month I fell pregnant with DD, we only did it once or twice in the whole month, and I was on top - pretty sure a lot fell out and it still worked! so don't stress too much
Isn't jealousy a curse! It's so horrid and I hate it but I best be honest with myself! No point in lying and not doing anything about it!
I'm sure ill be back after I've ovulated or I'll most likely be in and out it I can't do the daily or frequent checkins.
I'm just not coping
10dpo today and have had brown spotting for 3 days. It started after a bit of blood when going to the bathroom. Its commonfor my af to start with brown cm and slowly change in color, but not to bleed then stop and then have this cm. Its not due for a few days. Bfn test today but I didnt use fmu. My iB with ky DD was just a small amount of brown cm on one day and some cramping.
I had lost all hope for a BFP when the bleeding started but now I'm not sure
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I think after this month if I don't get a bfp, I'm going to be super disappointed with my body!!
I mean, maybe it's meant to be! But still, it's so hard to deal with.
Opk tests start up again soon. I've basically warned dh he better get ready to get his rocks off a lot in a week's time hahha
So sorry to hear that @ponypal! Must be devastating. Man that'd be so hard to have a bfp and then not. Why be so cruel *sniff
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