Just need to get this out so it doesn't play on my mind.
DP and I have been together for 5 and a half years. We've had our rocky moments for sure. Last year we had a big problem where my trust was destroyed. I decided I couldn't throw it away and we worked on our relationship. Things have been great. We found out we were expecting DS and our little boy came in Feb this year.
My problem... My best friend from school had a messy break up with her boyfriend and I was there to support her. Happy to. It got to the point she was attention seeking with certain things I found absolutely disgusting. IMO she crossed a very strong line when it comes to my moral compass.
Her EX messaged me (we have not spoken separate from a group setting. He's not my kind of person) saying she was doing things I'm strongly against. I spoke with and she admitted to it being a lie. To me attention seeking. I told her EX the truth that it was attention seeking. Was I wrong to do this? I don't think I was. She flipped her lid at me. Saying I was out of line etc.
before I go on forever.. Skip a bit..
She has said some extremely hurtful things towards me. I decided that I could not have her in my life. I told her this and ceased all contact.
That afternoon she messaged DP saying I had been messaging an EX of mine from a long time ago. Telling him quite filthy and raunchy things. I did no so thing. Proved that to DP.
I did get quite angry with DP, I asked him if she had spoken to him, he told me no. I hate lying. Despise it.
I have since sorted things with DP. My main question is have I over reacted or would other people feel the same way if they were in my shoes?
DP thinks I gave up on the friendship to easily.