Sorry but but I just see your comments as inflammatory (whether you meant it or not) as the usual VP blaming the victim approach. Everyone should change their thinking, get counselling or grow some balls, rather than focusing on the actual person in the wrong/the one abusing their position.
Victims attitudes, lifestyle etc. have nothing to do with why they are being wronged. So while you say pron affects people's attitudes.... It's completely irrelevant if it actually does or doesn't.
Thanks for explaining where you're coming from either way though.
* I think people's view on porn affects the degree to which they think things like online sex chatting are bad. I was actually referring (in my mind at least!) to people giving the OP advice, and not the OP/victim (although it could probably apply to a victim as well). I stand by this. People's experiences, morals and culture affect their views all the time. This is nothing new This doesn't mean I'm saying those who think differently have invalid opinions. I am not suggesting those who have a less tolerant view of porn change their opinions.
* I haven't (in this thread) said anyone should "grow some #####". Perhaps the views you have formed on myself in other threads is clouding your response to my posts in this thread?.
- a related note, the phrase "grow some ****" is now a banned phrase on BH. I won't report your post, but I thought I would let you know because I wouldn't want you to get in trouble
Hoe can I get admin to delete my topic it has gotten out of control
You can report it and they will go from there
I've reported it for you OP, so a mod can close it
I had to read the lead up to make sure I wasn't reading one comment out of context.
Before this gets shut down, in response to op, yes I would confront dp. As far as I'm aware he does not know I'm on BH bit I doubt he would care anyway. But.. There is a massive difference between sex chat and parent forum chat.
*walks away because this has just got too absurdly and ridiculously crazy for me to even read along*
Last edited by DesperatelySeekingSleep; 08-09-2014 at 15:02.
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