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    Quote Originally Posted by beebs View Post
    No, it isn't the issue - the issue is that P)rn and sexting a stranger is totally different. For someone who likes to rate things on the moral compass so much - I am actually surprised that you see nothing wrong with sexting a stranger whilst someone is in a relationship.
    When did I say there was nothing wrong with sext ing a stranger while someone is in a relationship?

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    My bad, you are right - you didn't say that - you just implied that I wasn't that bad and likened it to p0rn, which it isn't.

    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    When did I say there was nothing wrong with sext ing a stranger while someone is in a relationship?

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    How does pr0n have anything at all to do with this issue? They're hardly the same thing...

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    Quote Originally Posted by beebs View Post
    My bad, you are right - you didn't say that - you just implied that I wasn't that bad and likened it to p0rn, which it isn't.
    Sex chat is not as bad as physically cheating. But it's still bad. And the link with porn is in that:
    - with porn and online sexting people are trying to get their rocks off
    - people who are ok with porn may offer the OP advice that is different from people who are not ok with porn.

    I hope that clarifies things.

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    According to YOU VP! What you have decided is not the definitive definition. I don't think they are the same and I see Sexting just as bad as cheating! How's about just offering your own opinion and leave everyone else to offer theirs? I think other people know their own values and what educated opinions they want to offer.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aquillah View Post
    According to YOU VP! What you have decided is not the definitive definition. I don't think they are the same and I see Sexting just as bad as cheating! How's about just offering your own opinion and leave everyone else to offer theirs? I think other people know their own values and what educated opinions they want to offer.
    Im with you, it is cheating as you are conversing with a real person. I have no problem with my OH watching porn, in fact I watched it with him this morning! That doesnt effect my opinion of sexting-its just an abuse of trust. I hope OP is ok? Did you confront him?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aquillah View Post
    According to YOU VP! What you have decided is not the definitive definition. I don't think they are the same and I see Sexting just as bad as cheating! How's about just offering your own opinion and leave everyone else to offer theirs? I think other people know their own values and what educated opinions they want to offer.
    Yes according to ME. I generally sprout my own views not that of others

    To further clarify (since I am being quoted out of context left right and centre... Perhaps I should have been clearer in my posts but I didn't want to bore everyone with a 50,000 page thesis): I don't see anonymous text based sex chat over the Internet as bad as physical cheating. I do however see video sex chat/Sex chat with someone you know (sexting) or plan on meeting as right up there with physical cheating.

    I am happy to leave everyone else to their opinion....If you think anonymous sex chat is as bad as physical cheating then that's ok. I understand that viewpoint and you're certainly entitled to it. I'm not sure why you would think I have a problem with you having a different viewpoint.
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    Quote Originally Posted by brookeallisa View Post
    Im with you, it is cheating as you are conversing with a real person. I have no problem with my OH watching porn, in fact I watched it with him this morning! That doesnt effect my opinion of sexting-its just an abuse of trust. I hope OP is ok? Did you confront him?
    Completely OT but you watched pron with your husband this morning?

    Geez I spent the morning watching DD1 do dance classes and DD2 and DS1 playing sport. My days seem so vanilla.

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    I think people are misunderstanding VicPark and getting upset unnecessarily. Different opinions are fine and no one is saying one opinion is right. Only the people in the couple can comment on what they personally class as cheating. Let's not get the thread off track, I hope you are ok O.P.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sonja View Post
    Completely OT but you watched pron with your husband this morning?

    Geez I spent the morning watching DD1 do dance classes and DD2 and DS1 playing sport. My days seem so vanilla.
    Haha..we dont have any babies to worry about yet, so its all about the bd


 

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