ok - we are getting a bit away from the OP's problem though.
Perhaps start another thread to chat about they "why do they do that" aspect ... and leave this one for supporting the OP.
How are things today @2ndtimemumma ? Did you have a good chat? Make some decisions between you?
OP I would always confront him. I have been where you are (so many times) and it is always better to have it out.
Actually @Vic Park porn can be really harmful in a relationship. DH has addiction tendencies in this way, so my example (which I won't go into) are at the extreme end of the scale, but check out the website yourbrainonporn.com (aargh can't make the link work). I find it to be a well researched and referenced site on the physical changes that porn use can make to the brain. Just an interesting aside!
Sorry to get so off topic.
Big hugs Op
No, it isn't the issue - the issue is that P)rn and sexting a stranger is totally different. For someone who likes to rate things on the moral compass so much - I am actually surprised that you see nothing wrong with sexting a stranger whilst someone is in a relationship.
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