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    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    Is yours a p@rn free house? (Genuine question, I'm wondering if people's views on p@rn is affecting their advice to the OP)
    Its not porn though. We are talking about real people with real emotions (no acting) with real sexual intention. Completely different kettle of fish.

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    OP I hope you're ok. I do think you should confront your husband, the bottom line is if its something that has made you so obviously upset then it is not ok. Whether the relationship is salvageable is for you and your husband to decide. Thinking of you and sending you strength to chat to your husband about it. Xo

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    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    Hmmmm I wonder if people would be so supportive of the snoop if their partners snooped on their phone and 'stumbled' accross their bub hub accounts... And read what was written about them..??..?!.???
    I wouldn't have a issue with dh going through my phone, purse etc...
    I open all the mail etc....
    We don't have secrets. It just how our relationship works. It is just not a big thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    Hmmmm I wonder if people would be so supportive of the snoop if their partners snooped on their phone and 'stumbled' accross their bub hub accounts... And read what was written about them..??..?!.???
    Pretty different in my view. If I'm saying anything here about DH it's likely that I've confronted him about it and it's since been resolved, also I'm not identifying him in any way. Not much different from confiding in a friend about something that's concerning me, does that make sense ? Whereas in the OPs case her partner has done something behind her back he likely had no intention of telling her about , and possibly even intended (or actually went through with) meeting other women for s3x.

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    Really? I think it is a extremely disrespectful thing to do to a partner- a complete breach of trust, a lot of people say that it isn't the actual physical part of cheating that is the deal breaker - but the lying. And this is much the same.

    We all have different lines in the sand - for me this would absolutely be crossing the line - I didn't advise her to kick him out - I said that is what I would do.

    I am sure she will decided what is right for her and her family.


    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    Over sex chat? Some view it as just like a bit of p@rn. Unless there is an intent to meet up/exchange videos etc then I don't know if I would advise kicking him out..

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    I leave my bubhub account open all day - as I do with my email accounts, facebook etc. And DH does the same - there are no passwords around here and no rules. Neither of us have nothing to hide, but the important thing is that neither of us care if the other looks around, why would we?

    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    Hmmmm I wonder if people would be so supportive of the snoop if their partners snooped on their phone and 'stumbled' accross their bub hub accounts... And read what was written about them..??..?!.???

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    I agree with you, a huge difference between p0rn and sex talking with an actual person on purpose and hiding it from your partner too!

    Quote Originally Posted by brookeallisa View Post
    Its not porn though. We are talking about real people with real emotions (no acting) with real sexual intention. Completely different kettle of fish.

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    I haven't read all the comments, but was it really an accident that you stumbled upon this... I don't think I've ever looked at the apps on my hubby's phone.. Let alone ever go on his phone.

    Were you suspecting that he was doing something ? Which made you look through his phone?

    I would have said something straight away, regardless of how you found out.. What he's doing is extremely wrong and disgusting. You deserve an explanation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by brookeallisa View Post
    Its not porn though. We are talking about real people with real emotions (no acting) with real sexual intention. Completely different kettle of fish.
    I wouldn't say it's a completely different kettle of fish. It's anonymous.... And all about getting your rocks off because you have too much free time on your hands/aren't getting what you 'need' at home.

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    Quote Originally Posted by beebs View Post
    I leave my bubhub account open all day - as I do with my email accounts, facebook etc. And DH does the same - there are no passwords around here and no rules. Neither of us have nothing to hide, but the important thing is that neither of us care if the other looks around, why would we?
    Yeah I leave my BH account in my phone all day too (it's an app and the password is saved. Does your hubby know you have a bub hub account and if so does he know how to access it and does he look at the recent posts?


 
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