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    I agree - I would talk to him about it

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    Thanks everyone I confronted him and we arw working it out

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    thats great. so glad you are talking to him about it



    I hope you work things out

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    I hope things get better for you.

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    He could quite possibly require more surgery if it was me, hope things can be sorted for you. Any form of betrayal is just so hard..

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    What a horrible situation for you

    Definitely confront him. I agree with other PP's to just tell the complete truth: I was playing about on your phone and saw this, what's going on?

    We don't have secrets in our marriage, we often pick up each others phones, we'll open a message and read it to the other if we're close to the phone and we both know each others passwords to facebook and everything else.

    Often when someone gets caught doing something wrong they will try and deflect the blame back on to the other person. If he gets angry at you for snooping, that is all he's doing. Playing on his phone and dirty talk with another woman are not even in the same league of deceit.

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    Even though you feel as if you were snooping - I'd confront him. Snooping is nothing compared to sexting someone when married. I think personally I'd kick him out.

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    I'd confront him.. Similar thing happened when I was with my ex...was bored and looked on his facebook and found sexual type messages between him and different women.

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    Confront him. Perhaps say something like "I apologise, I was playing on your phone, which I shouldn't have been doing." See if he says anything.... He might raise the s@x talk himself. If not say "I saw the s@x talk and don't know what to make of it. I apologise for playing with your phone but I can't ignore what I saw."

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    Quote Originally Posted by beebs View Post
    Even though you feel as if you were snooping - I'd confront him. Snooping is nothing compared to sexting someone when married. I think personally I'd kick him out.
    Over sex chat? Some view it as just like a bit of p@rn. Unless there is an intent to meet up/exchange videos etc then I don't know if I would advise kicking him out..


 

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