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    Oh no, how scary for you guys. I agree forking out the money for a PI might be the way to go. Good luck.

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    I would do as much google detective work as possible and totally hire a PI... I hope it all works out ok.

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    That's heartbreaking for your mil

    There are police teams set up to specifically investigate online conmen, maybe you could pass what details you know on to them.

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    Oh no, I hope she doesn't get too hurt.

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    Definately get a pi. My friend dated a conman and it was obvious to us but it whatever reason she didn't see it.

    He ended up taking over $350k from her, she had to sell her house and is now living with her parents and starting again.

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    Oh no, I hope you can do something before MIL let's him move in! He certainly sounds dodgy. A PI sounds like a good idea, so long as they can get info before he moves in.

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    Maybe say you're uncomfortable taking the kids around there until you get to know him better so could he hold off on moving in until you do get to know him better?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wise Enough View Post
    Maybe say you're uncomfortable taking the kids around there until you get to know him better so could he hold off on moving in until you do get to know him better?
    The OP doesn't have any kids :/
    Good idea though!

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    Thanks ladies.

    Just rang MIL to talk about today and he is there!!

    We have no children so can't use that as a reason.

    We are just being honest, saying we think it's to fast, that he doesn't sound right for her, his stories seem odd.

    She has told him we are doing IVF and he even tried to talk about that. WFT!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by mummymaybe View Post
    Thanks ladies.

    Just rang MIL to talk about today and he is there!!

    We have no children so can't use that as a reason.

    We are just being honest, saying we think it's to fast, that he doesn't sound right for her, his stories seem odd.

    She has told him we are doing IVF and he even tried to talk about that. WFT!!
    Oh that is scary that he's there now. I feel scared for your MIL. :-( And to refer to your IVF is so inappropriate! Good luck with the PI.


 

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