Will my ds get enough stimulation if we stay at home all day every day during the week (we usually go out on weekends)? I hope so cause at the moment im too anxious to take him out anywhere by myself as its always really hard & stressful to even get out of the house.
Im reliant on public transport or walking as I dont drive, which makes things harder as im really scared of taking ds & the pram on the bus/train (I cant use a carrier due to neck & upper back issues).
Im also really anxious about feeding him in public - the few times I have done it its been a bit of a nightmare, struggling with the feeding cover getting tangled around ds/getting in ds's face etc, ending up with both of us covered in milk so then I have to find somewhere to get changed that I can take the pram (which is very difficult in some places that dont have parents rooms etc), not to mention having to haul around towels & terry flats or multiple changes of clothes. Its hard to time outings around feeds when ds feeds every 2 hours & the feed takes an hour - this would only leave me an hour to get there & back by public transport/walking which is difficult
Also ds just will not settle for me unless I put him on my boob (see previous paragraph) so im really anxious about what I will do if ds starts cracking up when im out
Ive already been sworn at in a shop for having a pram the first time dh & I took ds out, I dont know if I can cope with that every time I go anywhere by myself
Its even hard for me to just take ds for a walk around the block at the moment
Dh wants me to start going out but I just dont know if I can
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