@harvs this has actually occurred to me. As mum said they dont need to know details, just that he is having keyhole surgery and needs to take it easy for a bit.... my mums excellent at this sort of thing lol. He would absolutely hit the roof and probably wouldn't tell me anything again. Yes he can be like that.
He + Me = dd1 (July 2007), dd2 (July 2010), dd3 (August 2012), dd4 (May 2014)
Embrace the chaos