... when your dh/dp could possibly have cancer?!
We are trying to stay positive but the oncologist and dr dont sound overly confident. We are trying not to worry until the biopsy is done and results come back, but at the same time have been told to plan ahead, sort any insurance and legal stuff out etc. They are setting him up for treatment next week when they do the scans and biopsy, treatment wont commence until they know exactly what they are dealing with but from what he has told me and what the oncologist and dr have said they are predicting it to be cancer.
How the hell can you prepare for this. How the hell can you stay positive.
I know theres no point in worrying until we know for sure, but at the same time we do need to prepare for the worst and even knowing its a possibility has scared the crap out of us.
He + Me = dd1 (July 2007), dd2 (July 2010), dd3 (August 2012), dd4 (May 2014)
Embrace the chaos