18 months ago my ex moved to canada with his wife and their 2 children when our daughter was 4.5, obviously she stayed in australia with me.
This morning I woke to an email from him asking if they were to return to Australia what kind of arrangement would I agree to (prior to him leaving she spent 2/14 nights with him and one night for dinner during the week). She has visited him once in canada for 10 days but does not want to visit again and she refuses to skype him despite my encouragement and me literally chasing her around the house. He has so far refused to visit her in Australia, he was supposed to for her birthday but that never eventuated.
I said I was confused as to why he would think anything would be different prior to him leaving given his absence over the past 18 months and he replied it would be nice to have her more frequently and he does not see why this would be an issue to me.
I imagine things are going to get messy upon his return and what kind of arrangements should I be anticipating?