@Bongley I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you get some answers and suggestions - look after yourself
@Bellydance this is true the bigger things are unisex so at least we can shop for that together, I did have a think and if I can't convince him to come around I mite leave finding out until 6-7 months and buy everything I want and layby it then when I'm in hospital get mum to take it out of layby wash it and put it away for me lol I just can't imagine not being organised, being organised is my thing, dp should know this!!!! Lol @Molros what is with the men not wanting to find out, perhaps if they were left up to organising everything they'd think abit differently. I even thought I can just buy boy and girl things and return what I won't need, maybe we'll get lucky at the 19 week scan and just accidentally see some gentian parts by accident haha @Bongley ur dp needs to have a chat with mine and convince him finding out is the best option so sorry to hear it's still a bfn for you, how bloody frustrating, not sure if I wasted previously but did you do endo scratch? I guess your other option could be to try prednisolone or blood thinners. Hoping that second line shows up for you, massive hugs babe xxx @Rarah11 I have been debating which way to go and I read alot that c section is safer for Bub, I think :/ I want the safest mode possible. Little chubby bubby so cute!!! Good luck with ur GD results, hopefully everything is fine, because I'm on such a high dose of pred I've got glucose in my urine so ob is having me do GTT next week erghh the thought of having to keep that drink down already makes me sick
hi @miissalina yep, BFN, stopped meds on monday and just got my period tonight. Spoke to my FS today and pretty happy with his next plan but getting a second opinion and we'll go from there. Hoping for this last cycle to be done by christmas. Thanks for asking! Hope everything is peachy with you
@miissalina so a uterine biopsy in ten days time, stimulated FET (instead of programmed, natural is out as my cycles are screwed) and then if necessary clexane, prednisone, mayonnaise drip with a side of napalm.
Similar to what you did is it?
@Bongley napalm is definitely the key ingredient... I'm glad you have a sense of humour. Good to hear your plan and next steps are in place! Got GD results back and all good as was 3rd trimester well being scan - so now starting to think maybe we should look at buying stuff...
@Bongley hahahha I was like o I haven't heard of this naplam stuff lets google it (blonde moment!!!!)
Yep that's basically all I did, the biopsy is basically a scratch but they send away the tissue, also am on clexane pred and doing the intralipids. So glad your fs isn't one of those conservative ones who isn't willing to think outside the square!! Do you start after this cycle? @Rarah11 so good to head no GD for you, I had my GTT today although only 16weeks hopefully it's all clear.
Have you brought anything as yet or have you been holding off?
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