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    No answers for me today just more waiting.
    I went in for my scan with DP expecting a its in the uterus or in ur tubes hcg was only 980 on Friday so to see much I was told would be un likely.
    Watching the screen she points out the yolk sac in my uterus and zooms in to show us the HEARTBEAT!!!!!
    99bpm. You could see the look on DP face he was in shock I still don't no what to say or feel because I've been told for the past week this is not going to go anywhere and from all my knowledge and research it's not going to progress. I have also read hb can't be seen with a hcg of less than 3-4k.
    My specialist who I changed from because he stuffed up the cycle cannot apparently talk to me about this until Wednesday night, the personal care or lack of is very upsetting, to me this is my life I have obsessed over this for years and he can't even give me a call.
    So I'm left in limbo with not knowing anything although they will probly tell me to wait a week or two if no bleeding repeat scan.
    I always imagined when I seen the heart beat we would cry and I'd be so so happy I even day dream about it but this afternoon was not like that at all it was more shock and some heart ache because the reality is that this is very much a non healthy pregnancy and now that I've seen the heart beat it's stuck in my mind.
    To rub more salt into the wound EDD is my birthday!!!!
    I hope I'm one of those one in 500 000 000 that things work out for.
    Thanks again ladies for listening xxx

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    @miissalina oh my god!! Is there another doctor you can see to discuss the results?? A heartbeat and no bleeding, that has to be good right? I really hope this works out for you. Let us know what your FS says tomorrow if you can't see anyone today.

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    @Bongley thank you for your kind words xxx
    He called me this morning just bluntly said hb is too slow hcg not rising properly so your likely headed for a miscarriage but stranger things have happened , repeat scan in 1week.
    just very calm and to the point about the whole thing, so um that's where I'm at? I'm actually feeling very numb about the whole thing it's a strange feeling, not really sure how to feel or what to say. I guess time will tell and nature will decide what she wants to do

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    Quote Originally Posted by miissalina View Post
    @Bongley thank you for your kind words xxx
    He called me this morning just bluntly said hb is too slow hcg not rising properly so your likely headed for a miscarriage but stranger things have happened , repeat scan in 1week.
    just very calm and to the point about the whole thing, so um that's where I'm at? I'm actually feeling very numb about the whole thing it's a strange feeling, not really sure how to feel or what to say. I guess time will tell and nature will decide what she wants to do
    Oh wow that's really douchey of your doctor, I'm flabbergasted. Sending you good vibes for the little ticker, hopefully it's a fighter.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miissalina View Post
    @Bongley thank you for your kind words xxx
    He called me this morning just bluntly said hb is too slow hcg not rising properly so your likely headed for a miscarriage but stranger things have happened , repeat scan in 1week.
    just very calm and to the point about the whole thing, so um that's where I'm at? I'm actually feeling very numb about the whole thing it's a strange feeling, not really sure how to feel or what to say. I guess time will tell and nature will decide what she wants to do
    @miissalina Oh no. I really hope the little bean pulls through but I guess you want to prepare yourself for the worst. Big hugs to you

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    @miissalina I have all my fingers and toes crossed that this works out for you. I'm so sorry that this is such a tough time for you and dp. Sending you both huge hugs

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    @miissalina oh my goodness, this is so hard for you. I am crossing everything for you both and hope that this week passes quickly for you. Big hugs xx

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    thank you ladies your words have been encouraging still no sign of anything wrong no spotting cramping ect, if it wasnt for the hcg id not know anything was wrong. i have that tiny little bit of hope that maybe im not the text book story.
    mondays scan is going to feel like forever away. never expected this to happen i always assumed that it would either end early like all the others or it would be a healthy pregnancy, i guess i shouldnt assume. i did assume having babies was easy and i was wrong.
    hope everyone is well and enjoying their little ones @Bongley hows your cycle going, what are you up too?

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    Hi @miissalina I was on another thread just yesterday where the lady was given a 20% chance of her bub pulling through. The second scan showed it all totally healthy and growing as normal and back on track. I really hope that's your story too.

    AFM US today and one side is going gangbusters and the other side has just one follicle. Pretty much the same as my november cycle. Hopefully we get 7 eggs like we did then. EPU next thursday.

    Also, my partner has agreed to try and find an egg donor! I have been niggling at him for the past year. So we are in the process of looking for one. So it looks like we haven't given up just yet

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    @Bongley that's such great news I really hope ur little one is in this batch of eggies but if not I'm glad ur dp has come around on the egg donor idea, sometimes they just need abit of time.
    I always plant the seed and let it grow haha it's funny how they warm to things over time, I think they take abit longer than us to digest things.


 

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