Checking in again. Want to thank you all for such a warm welcome despite me not constantly posting on the board.
Can’t believe how many twins are in this group - and how many graduates we have. For those of us who are still hanging in there, I hope our turn comes soon.
@Nezz79 - Out of my 4 transfers, only 1 has been a single. Still haven’t managed to graduate. Hope you are not going too crazy in that horrible 2WW and this is your lucky one.
@Megsarama26 - each time I come here I look for updates to see how your little ones are going. You’re actually a huge inspiration to me. You are going through something so tough but doing such an awesome job at it. I really hope all goes well for you.
@katiana… twins too. congratulations. You must be over the moon. Sad to hear about the original triples then going to twins… I can only imagine how your FS must have felt. I keep having dreams (or are they nightmares, LOL) that we put 2 embryo’s back and DTD as well and end up with 3. I think it would make mu husband have a heart attack. When do you think you will tell your family about there being more than one ?
@frogspossum - hope your starting to feel on the mend from head colds & asthma. Its hard when you feel so miserable from that and you can’t take much to help relieve how you are feeling. 18 weeks already, wow
@Bongley - hope this is the one for you.
@Rice - score about the obstetrician being the same one that you used for your son in the private.
AFM - On thursday, 7dp5dt I started spotting, and by the Friday (8dp5dt) it had become heavier. I called the FN who said to do the blood test, and it was a BFN. I am out this time again.
We have 1 embryo left in the freezer (hopefully will get to confirm that tomorrow - when speaking to nurse she said it was a fresh cycle and I’m like no we have 1 left and they were on the search for it in the freezer). I see the FS tomorrow.
DH and I are going to try for this frosty and if it’s not a success we will be forced to take a break for a while due to $$ reasons. I really don’t want to stop, but coming up with $8.5K for a fresh cycle will take some time to save again (we were OK, but DH was involved in a car accident a few months ago and the car was written off - needed to use some $$ to get a new car for him).
I’m taking this BFN harder than I thought. I had previously named my transfer babies… Petrie (BFN), then Speckle & Freckle (Pregnant, with 1 -speckle who missed M/C at 8 weeks) then Cookie & cupcake (chemical preg). This time I didn’t because I didn’t want to get too invested in a positive outcome and no name certainly hasn’t made any difference.
I feel pretty flat this time - I think because like you all, I am desperate to have a baby and if this frosty isn’t the one then we are going to take a break. I am scared that this wont be our time either.
I have the FS tomorrow - 2:30pm to discuss things with her. Any suggestions of things you think I should ask, or recommend ? I need her to pull out the big guns so to speak. Our problem is main fertility mainly, but I have PCOS and endo. I don't think anything has been tested to see about AMH, or the NK cells or anything like that which some of you have mentioned.
*history* 2 fresh cycles, 1 BFN, 1BFP with m/c at 8 weeks
2 FET cycles 1chem preg - medicated with progynova, crinone, progesteron pessaries and pregnyl, 1 BFN - natural cycle with pregnyl only
Why are they not sticking ? When I asked my FS this after the chem preg she told me that even though I had 7embryos from this fresh cycle only 1 or 2 were ever only going to be any good and implant, and that the problem was with the more eggs you are able to fertilise then you dont know which one is the “good one” and you just have to keep trying until you get that one.