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    Default My husband just asked if I had a boyfriend

    My marriage has been crap since the beginning of the year but we've come to a
    Kind of roommates feeling I guess, no sex etc. this morning he woke me up and said our 4 year old daughter told him I had a boyfriend. I laughed and said when would I have time, I work 5 days a week (have Mondays off) and apparently I see him with my daughter. I laughed and told him he was pathetic. It then turned into a big argument about old issues and he said something that proves he has been snooping in my things. In not going to leave for a few months for a few
    Reasons so this is more a vent then anything but seriously what the hell

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    I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I'm sure it is incredibly hurtful for him to make that kind of accusation.

    Snooping would really annoy me and I would probably leave a little note in a place me will be looking that says " don't go through my things". It might shock him to know that you know he is doing it.

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    That's awful

    Do you think your 4 year old really said those things to him?

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    I don't think she would, but who knows she talks to trees al who knows. I've written a note and left it where of he looks he will see it. It's made me so angry but it's laughable at the same time. Maybe he's having an affair and has a guilty conscience


 

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