Bbhope... I had asked Dr M to test for HLA after a couple of times of seeing him, as I'd read that if abnormal, then there was also the possibility that anon donor sperm would match, hence why we've done three different donor sperms over the time just in case that was the problem, but obviously for us, it's still something else. Dr M said it's not really worth getting the donors tested to see if they match me, just easier to change donors.
Galea.... I know the LIT sounds dreadful, but I did do a lot of reading about it when I first chanced upon it, and the amount of needles probably isn't anything worse than all the IVF needles we've all had during our cycles. As I mentioned previously, the lady in the bed next to me two times ago was doing LIT, and she just seemed to be taking it in her stride.