+ Reply to Thread
Results 1 to 5 of 5
  1. #1
    Join Date
    Nov 2012
    Posts
    3,232
    Thanks
    461
    Thanked
    1,153
    Reviews
    3
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts

    Default How much do you play?

    I was wondering today of I should be active in playing with dd (10mths).
    I'm a SAHM and most days we have errands to run or housework to get done so she follows me around as I go about my tasks. We smile and have fun, I talk to her a bit and she 'helps me' by playing with the odd socks or climbing over the washing basket etc. Sometimes we play peek a boo when she is sitting in her high chair and I jump out from behind the pantry door etc. We do go to mothers group almost weekly and she has a regular Friday play date with a friend the same age.

    She is happy and active and usually finds a little toy or Tupperware bowl to crawl around with and make noise or fun things like tea towels and daddy's shoes to swish around. But I don't often just sit with her to play with nothing else going on.. Mostly since she seems happy to play alone and explore and when I do sit with her, all she wants to do is climb on me and won't take any interest in the toys or books.

    So my question is.. During a normal day, how much do you play with your LO?

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Jun 2009
    Posts
    5,219
    Thanks
    2,842
    Thanked
    1,467
    Reviews
    8
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    Awards:
    500 Posts in a week
    400 Posts in a week300 posts in a week200 Posts in a week100 Posts in a weekFunniest Caption
    I think what you do is fine. You are including her, she's happy and she's learning from you

    I couldn't say exactly how long I play with my kids. On DS1's preschool days I play with DS2 more than other days but I encourage him to play independently too so I can do washing and clean up.

    When DS1 was the same age as your LO I played with him quite a bit because I had nothing else I needed to do. I used to build him block towers to knock over but mainly I talked to him all day and that's what he loved.

    "Insert witty signature here"

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Jul 2013
    Posts
    537
    Thanks
    549
    Thanked
    190
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 posts
    I find if I schedule time to play it can be a bit tedious. So what I do is several brief plays throughout the day eg. After she gets ready for the day and has a b'feed, I'll sit down with her in the living room and read a picture book or play with a toy. After a few mins I'll leave her to go tidy the kitchen/put away clothes. I find if I just plonk her in front of her toys, she tends to come look for me pretty quickly. Same deal if I'm busy with something and she's at my feet wanting my attention, I take her back to her play area, read another book or play with another toy for a few mins then go back to what I was doing.

  4. #4
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Posts
    1,186
    Thanks
    330
    Thanked
    223
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 posts
    I find it difficult to get down and "play" with my kids. I really hate playing dolls in particular.
    So, I set up a lot of crafts. My kids are 3 and 19mths so a little older than your LO. I will spend time with them creating things, or cooking because I like this stuff and it's so easy to get them to help and join in.
    Me made a dolls house out of boxes the other day, the kids painted it.

    they go to crèche 2 days a week and get a lot from that. I spend those days cleaning/errands and doing things for myself like gym and swim.

    i hated mothers group and playgroups library ect. I found it difficult and awkward to be in the moment in those situations. My youngest played up, it became stressful.

    our main one on one time is of a night before bed. We read and talk about our day - it's a bit special and I feel that's how we can connect.

    my kids play well alone. My 3 yr old is very imaginative and makes her own games up. My 19mth old prefers to be out side, fiddling in our cubby.

    As long as there is a balance. I think it's good to let them entertain themselves. It's also important they know your there, when they need you.

  5. The Following User Says Thank You to Little Miss Muffet For This Useful Post:

    jez  (20-08-2014)

  6. #5
    Join Date
    Aug 2014
    Location
    Melbourne
    Posts
    32
    Thanks
    52
    Thanked
    8
    Reviews
    0
    I'm glad this was posted as I often wonder what a good balance is.

  7. The Following User Says Thank You to butterfly81 For This Useful Post:

    adeline14  (21-08-2014)


 

Similar Threads

  1. Can anyone recommend a play mat?
    By sodalimebitters in forum Product Recommendations & Questions
    Replies: 8
    Last Post: 23-09-2014, 21:16
  2. Dad & son play
    By FearlessLeader in forum General Parenting Tips, Advice & Chat
    Replies: 43
    Last Post: 12-12-2013, 07:51
  3. Play shoes???
    By WiseOldOwl in forum General Parenting Tips, Advice & Chat
    Replies: 14
    Last Post: 01-11-2013, 19:05

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
free weekly newsletters | sign up now!
who are these people who write great posts? meet our hubbub authors!
Learn how you can contribute to the hubbub!

reviews
learn how you can become a reviewer!

competitions

forum - chatting now
christmas gift guidesee all Red Stocking
Tambo Teddies
Visit our online store and select your individually handmade natural sheepskin teddy bear. Our soft and loveable bears come in a range of styles and colours. Created in Outback Queensland each bear is unique individual. 100% Australian made!
sales & new stuffsee all
Bub Hub Sales Listing
HAVING A SALE? Let parents know about it with a Bub Hub Sales listing. Listings are featured on our well trafficked Sales Page + selected randomly to appear on EVERY page
featured supporter
Carmels Beauty Secrets
An online beauty and wellness site which offers simple and effective time saving methods and tips which help you look younger for longer.
gotcha
X

Pregnant for the first-time?

Not sure where to start? We can help!

Our Insider Programs for pregnancy first-timers will lead you step-by-step through the 14 Pregnancy Must Dos!