Hey girls, I'm ****ed off and unfort won't be able to start at Westmead this month as no one told me we needed our frozen sperm there prior to starting. It's so frickin confusing trying to work out every last little bit of the whole IVF thing!!!! Agggghhh it means we are going to have to spend 4.5k again and go to Genea (where he sperm currently is) if I want to go this month. I've had last month off in preparation and was really keen. We will need to borrow money to do this. I've spent all my savings on pregnancy related stuff starting with trying vasectomy reversal which didn't work...
Hope you don't mind me just having a whinge!!
I had a massive cry, fight with my mum who told me to give up - she always told me growing up how difficult having children was and programmed into my head not to prioritise having kids - I knownim blaming her a bit - ultimately it's my fault (and partly societal stuff which always encouraged education/work over family for my generation), and so now at 41 I'm struggling... Ughhhhhh...
Rant over, thanks for listening... X
Wow Jaguar that is soooooo awesome awesome awesome x
Oh Ange that sux! I'd be p*ssed off too as it's hard not to get your hopes up and mentally prepare for a cycle. How long will it take to send sperm over? In the long run is it better to wait the extra month and go through westmead for financial reasons? I'd be torn too with what to do too xx
Ange1111........lost for words for u ......such a difficult situation u have been placed in ... IVF is definitely a strain financially and of coarse emotionally ....I strongly believe everything will work out for u next month and that u have just hit a bit of a road block now but I assure u everything will open up for u super quick . Please stay positive , u will get there soon . It wasn't "right " at the time to have had kids before so always remember it wasn't right at the time but it's right now !
I just wanted to say how beautiful your pics are MrsJag! So happy for you. Your little one is strong
This TWW feels like a 10 week wait 😁😁😁😁
Hey Katt I was given a HPT kit by the clinic and advised to test on the 29th March ! Today I'm 5dp5dt 😁
Yayyy for AF ! Lol it's funny how we can't wait for AF during fertility treatments !! All the best for the week of the 4th !!! Keep us posted !
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