Everything as in cooking cleaning tidying up making sure ds eats throughout the day and has a fun day.
Dh goes to work. Comes home and does his own thing and thinks because ds is in his general area thats spending time.
Im on leave at the moment for a few weeks but I work too but when im working I just have a mess to come home to and im over it.
If im working and dh is off.. I ask what did he give ds for morning tea and he just looks at me blankly. . Wtf give him something between breakfast and lunch!! And taking him to bunnings isnt spending time with him..
Im just over it and if I try and bring it up dh just gets in a childish mood.
I feel like I am taking a huge load trying to do everything myself and its getting too much.
If I was a single mum then fine but he is around to help and doesnt so it really angers me!!
Is anyone else in the same boat? Have you overcome this? Help me!! Im sick of cleaning his cr ap. Im too much of a neat freak to let it build up.. wish I could.. maybe I can try.. augh! Rant over. . Sorry!