Oh no @mightymama!! Did you dtd before then at all??
Wednesday night, I'll be all over him tonight 😂
Well we're in bed, not gotten jiggy at all tonight and I'm heart broken because I'm feeling so alone in this journey, he seems to not really invest as much as I am and it's wearing thin. Talking to him about it is so difficult!
Its stupid I know and I'm wondering if it's unresolved mc issues, but now I'm bawling urgh!
Oh hun, it's not stupid.
Your mc was only last month, you're still healing.
Have you talked to your partner about it? He could be feeling stressed out too, guys tend to feel the pressure cause they have to 'perform' when TTC.
Its unfair that we become so invested in TTC and some men just don't have the same sense of urgency to fall pregnant that we feel.
Have you tried instead cups to get pregnant? Kinda gross but worth it.
DP and I tried them last time we got pregnant, they really help if you don't have time to lay around for 10 minutes afterwards and if you don't have time to dtd more than once while O'ing.
Thanks ❤️ I'm feeling much better this morning. According to my chart I ovulated last Thursday and dtd Wednesday only so I'm in the tww!
I am so shocked!! This is the shortest cycle in years!!
But I'm taking a month off, it's my birthday and I don't really want to ttc because if I do get pregnant the babe will be due when my lil guy has his birthday (yeah he was birthday sex 😁😁 haha) which is dumb, to give up a possible opportunity but I think I need a break anyway.
Cups? What are these mystical cups you speak of? 😆
2 bubba's with birthdays within a week of each other could be a blessing 2 for 1 birthday parties forever! haha, but a break might do you some good to de-stress you, you've been through a lot in the last couple of months.
take the space out between early and -
They're made for AF which would be super gross if actually used for that.
We used them and DP 'did his thing' in the cup, you insert them into yourself and the cup holds the sperm close to the cervix. After 4 months of TTC last time we finally got pregnant in April using these. I used one 3/4 days before O and one on the day I O'ed.
You just leave them in for an hour and *poof* pregnant. well for DP and I anyway. I have some coming from America atm.
Just thought of a positive for not falling in August. I now have another 2 (or so) weeks to get a Maccas Sundae. :P
I'm not as stressed today as I felt the last few days, now I know ovulation has happened already (according to my chart anyway) Its out of my hands now so I'm not feeling so bad the tww isn't as bad as stressing over when ovulation is or was, for me anyway!
I am just so shocked at the length of my cycle! I can't believe I can test this month! Blown. My. Mind!
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