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    Default Dh hurt my feelings.

    We were having dinner and just charting and something came up about it takes all kinds if people to make the world go round.
    I said 'it takes all kinds if people to make the world GI round'
    He said 'it would be a better world if people were more like me'
    I said, lightheartedly 'well we would be living in the perfect world if more people were Luke u'. Then I said 'the world would be a better place if people were more like me' to which he replied 'no it wouldn't, it would be a far worse world if people were more like ur'. He said it really seriously and the thing is I'm pretty sure he meant it. We have been through alot in the last couple of years and I know for a fact I'm not want he imagined his wife to be. He doesn't find me attractive...he has said this, he thinks I don't do enough around the house or play enough with the kids, he thinks in mean and our sex life is not good...he had said this too!!.
    Wen you only hear negative things you start to believe them you know.
    Meh.


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    Sorry about all the autocorrect mistakes!!

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    I would have replied with something that sounds remarkably like 'truck', 'cough' and 'tanker'. I'm sorry. I hate how light conversations can turn like that. How hurtful.

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    That would hurt my feelings too. I too hate how light heartened conversations can be used to be so nasty

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    What a weasel.
    Does he relish in telling his friends and family how much he thinks of himself too?
    Or is this behaviour just especially for you?

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    So basically he's awesome and you're not? Wow he's not at all biased is he. :what:
    Rub some chili in his undies lol, that'll sort him out...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gothel View Post
    So basically he's awesome and you're not? Wow he's not at all biased is he. :what:
    Rub some chili in his undies lol, that'll sort him out...
    Lmao

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    That's a very hurtful thing to say, and it sounds like its far from a one off.

    I can tell you that I could play with my kids more, I could certainly clean the house more, and I'm not terribly attractive - First thing in the morning I look a lot like my avatar. But I'm not a bad person and neither are you. No one deserves to be criticised incessantly. No one. You are worthy of love and support and it sounds as though you aren't getting much of either.


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    He sounds like a w@nker

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    Quote Originally Posted by Wise Enough View Post
    He sounds like a w@nker
    This. Sorry OP that he says such hurtful things. You do not deserve to be talked to or treated like that. It's completely not OK


 

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