So, I was talking to my bf today and she was asking me whether we planned to find out the babies gender at our 20 week scan. I said that I reallllly want to but that DH is dead set against it, and won't even let me find out in case I accidentally spill the beans. So she said to me, well why don't you go to the 3d place I went to and find out on your own and not tell DH? I thought that seemed a bit, I don't know, wrong? Deceitful? It didn't sit right with my regardless. She said nup, it's your body your choice, if you want to know then you should, what he doesn't know won't hurt him. She didn't think it was a big deal.
Is it just me? I feel like it is a big deal, but maybe it isn't? Either way I'm not going to do it, but I'm interested to hear what others think!