In amongst all that time being confused and uncertain Re: previous relationship, many hours of phone calls to you, working, the gym, his own children he managed to find the time to meet someone else?
There are seriously no words. Other than douche.
I am so very sorry but I can also unequivocally say, you can do SO much better xx
Wtf?!?!?! No WAY!!!!
Oh my god... Seriously ... This guy has major issues. Thank god he's passing them onto someone else !
I say he is throwing out bait. I don't reckon he has, he just wants to see what you say! OR because you aren't showing much interest it's his way of putting his guard up? No way can he meet someone in a week. How?
Anyway I to have seen your pic and it's his bloody loss the jerk!
Wtf? So sorry OP... That's not cool. Why would he go all this time without contact then contact you to say this? I think he's fishing too. Wants your attention back may be?
I've been reading along. And now i'm angry. Why would he need to share that snippet? He would only be a few days into a new 'relationship' so how could he know it's going anywhere? I'm guessing its BS or he can't be alone and has to be with someone. Grrrr. Slap.
Awwww you ladies are lovely getting all hot under the collar on my behalf.
Just to respond a little - it's not made up. He was actually really quite worried about telling me. He met her out on Sat night. They haven't done anything as yet - but he wants to get to know her. He'd been stressing all week because he likes us both.
I told him to stop worrying and spread his wings. I think the last thing he needs is a relationship ... And I've realised that I haven't been single for 3 years to spend my first dating experience mending a broken person.
He's a really nice guy. He's just confused, hurt and broken. I'm stepping away readily. However (this is the silly part of me).... Already I'm questioning myself in terms of not being good enough. I seem to be passed over quite easily. I think I allow myself to be used as that stepping stone. And my ego has been bruised a little because I feel I'm never the right person for anyone. People are quick to walk away from me.
Last edited by Theboys&me; 12-09-2014 at 03:22.
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