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    I'm hoping there is a reunion soon.

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    After a week without speaking we talked on the phone on Sunday (for 4 hours) ... I'm afraid I fell back into that 'rock' role a PP had said not to do. He spoke about things we will do (like next time we are at his friends place I should look at xyz). It made me feel quite confused and a little uncomfortable. I've made an effort not to contact him since ... And he hasn't contacted me either. Speaks volumes I think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Theboys&me View Post
    After a week without speaking we talked on the phone on Sunday (for 4 hours) ... I'm afraid I fell back into that 'rock' role a PP had said not to do. He spoke about things we will do (like next time we are at his friends place I should look at xyz). It made me feel quite confused and a little uncomfortable. I've made an effort not to contact him since ... And he hasn't contacted me either. Speaks volumes I think.
    I'd be confused too.

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    How could you be anything but confused with that kind of weirdness?
    Don't beat yourself up by listening, participating and enjoying a nice conversation! It would just be nice if the signals were clear.
    I hope he works out what he wants soon.
    but in the meantime, it gives you an opportunity to work out what you want.

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    I know - I'm obviously quite the fool ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Theboys&me View Post
    I know - I'm obviously quite the fool ...
    Nope! We don't accept that kinda talk around here (coming from someone whose been around here for about 5 minutes!)
    You are not the fool! You are opening your heart to possibilities, opening your mind to someone new and being generous with both of those things and your time.
    In reality, none of us knows what he's thinking or feeling. You know him, you're more likely to know or have a hunch than any of us. Something is keeping you there and maybe, just maybe, there's a reason for that! I hope he sorts himself out x

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    Oh wow! I have just devoured every inch of all 35 pages!

    And men have always told me women are complicated pfffft! All we want is to be able to buy great shoes, be complimented and respected and be able to gobble chocolate while fitting the skinny jeans! Ok and a few other things too I guess.

    Really sorry it's to-ing and fro-ing so much that is really frustrating! All I can say is don't lose yourself in all of this ... my dh and I had so many dramas and breaks and ugh. I didn't recognize myself anymore but once I got my space and became me again we started working in a way we never did before.
    I don't want to dump unwarranted or unsolicited advice on you but I definitely think there is a big something there I could feel the connection just reading it! Don't lose hope ... Looking forward to the next updates this is far from over

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    Quote Originally Posted by hapuhope View Post
    Oh wow! I have just devoured every inch of all 35 pages!

    And men have always told me women are complicated pfffft! All we want is to be able to buy great shoes, be complimented and respected and be able to gobble chocolate while fitting the skinny jeans! Ok and a few other things too I guess.

    Really sorry it's to-ing and fro-ing so much that is really frustrating! All I can say is don't lose yourself in all of this ... my dh and I had so many dramas and breaks and ugh. I didn't recognize myself anymore but once I got my space and became me again we started working in a way we never did before.
    I don't want to dump unwarranted or unsolicited advice on you but I definitely think there is a big something there I could feel the connection just reading it! Don't lose hope ... Looking forward to the next updates this is far from over

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    Your right. You REALLY can feel the connection just reading!

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    How frustrating. I no he's confused etc
    But you deserve so much better. Take a huge step back, don't contact him, let him be single for a while and get his head clear then when he's ready if your still interested and free look at taking it further.


 

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