Oh please don't turn this into a battle of the exes ... I feel quite guilty sharing his things on here - it's not my place to do so. He's a good person and doesn't deserve me exposing his life. I feel quite horrible now.
. You a definitely not horrible!
you are not horrible, and I totally understand.
there is a vast difference between starting a new relationship, completely away from your children and when they are out of the house ... and having a boyfriend move in and be a major part of his children's lives.
all you can do is give him a bit of space, and let him and her work it out.
Sorry how my post came across im probably just being grumpy.
Youre not a bad person. Whats meant to be will be. Good luck and just enjoy having fun x
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Gosh it sounds so hard. The way I see it though... You are ideally suited because there is clearly an attraction - the bonus is that you having been through what he is going through means you understand his need to step back and take stock (for now, at least), and don't see it as a reason to run. And he is unfurling in you a willingness/comfort to start bringing down your walls which you seem to have reserved for someone really worthy.
So, maybe the timing is ideal, and you have come into each other's lives to gently nurture each other through these challenging changes...
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