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    Quote Originally Posted by ourbradybunch View Post
    Ugh run now if hes going to let his ex run his life either consciously or sub consciously.

    Its none of her business that hes seeing someone and its bs that she will use it against himin any way. But its even bigger bs if he falls for it.

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    But.....(and this is none of my business OP, and I don't know the full story, just putting it out there) if it's none of her business that he's seeing someone (and it's not) then how is it any of his business if her new boyfriend moves in with her.... Why is she having to "use it as leverage" at all. I know it might be because of the kids....but it sounds like they're still controlling each others lives at the moment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HillDweller View Post
    But.....(and this is none of my business OP, and I don't know the full story, just putting it out there) if it's none of her business that he's seeing someone (and it's not) then how is it any of his business if her new boyfriend moves in with her.... Why is she having to "use it as leverage" at all. I know it might be because of the kids....but it sounds like they're still controlling each others lives at the moment.
    Yep agree with you totally.

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    Oh please don't turn this into a battle of the exes ... I feel quite guilty sharing his things on here - it's not my place to do so. He's a good person and doesn't deserve me exposing his life. I feel quite horrible now.

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    . You a definitely not horrible!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Theboys&me View Post
    Oh please don't turn this into a battle of the exes ... I feel quite guilty sharing his things on here - it's not my place to do so. He's a good person and doesn't deserve me exposing his life. I feel quite horrible now.
    Don't feel horrible, you just shared your joy. I've never been in your position, but I've enjoyed reading about your romance! Please just look out for yourself, whatever happens, you don't deserve hot/cold based on what way his ex blows.

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    you are not horrible, and I totally understand.

    there is a vast difference between starting a new relationship, completely away from your children and when they are out of the house ... and having a boyfriend move in and be a major part of his children's lives.

    all you can do is give him a bit of space, and let him and her work it out.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Theboys&me View Post
    Oh please don't turn this into a battle of the exes ... I feel quite guilty sharing his things on here - it's not my place to do so. He's a good person and doesn't deserve me exposing his life. I feel quite horrible now.
    Big hugs. You are far from horrible. I for one hope it all works out for you both xx

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    Sorry how my post came across im probably just being grumpy.

    Youre not a bad person. Whats meant to be will be. Good luck and just enjoy having fun x

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    Gosh it sounds so hard. The way I see it though... You are ideally suited because there is clearly an attraction - the bonus is that you having been through what he is going through means you understand his need to step back and take stock (for now, at least), and don't see it as a reason to run. And he is unfurling in you a willingness/comfort to start bringing down your walls which you seem to have reserved for someone really worthy.

    So, maybe the timing is ideal, and you have come into each other's lives to gently nurture each other through these challenging changes...

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    Quote Originally Posted by harvs View Post
    Gosh it sounds so hard. The way I see it though... You are ideally suited because there is clearly an attraction - the bonus is that you having been through what he is going through means you understand his need to step back and take stock (for now, at least), and don't see it as a reason to run. And he is unfurling in you a willingness/comfort to start bringing down your walls which you seem to have reserved for someone really worthy.

    So, maybe the timing is ideal, and you have come into each other's lives to gently nurture each other through these challenging changes...
    I agree with this 100% well said Harvs. ..

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