Apple iPhart6 (07-08-2014)
I've been following along @Theboys&me, hope that's ok! I'm a sucker for a bit of romance and I've been hanging on every post.
If you're keen and he's keen but want to drop things back so he has space etc maybe invite him out for coffee. Neutral territory, nothing implied. Might give you a chance to talk it out with him what he wants, what you want etc. Could you perhaps suggest to slow things right down. No sleepovers, no sex etc until you're both ready, willing and able to commit. If you really like the guy and it sounds like you do, and if he really likes you, which sounds like he does, then you don't want to risk throwing it away.
Or on the other hand, if neither of you is looking for an emotional commitment there's always a physical friendship.
Ok ... Another update - he called on Mon night ... Spoke for 4 hours, I had to force him to get off the phone as it was 12:30am!! Called again last night for over 2 hours. I don't think we'll stop contacting each other anytime soon ... But taking it very slow with no expectations.
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I'm loving that you are staying in contact... Definitely something there to be chatting so long hun 😀 whoo hoo
I know you're going slow and everything...but can I have an invite to your wedding?
Seriously, it's very cute that you two are so into each other and I'm loving the updates.
So many mixed messages it's not funny - another 3 hour convo tonight
just go with the flow hun. remember back to where you were and let him take his time/set the pace of things
We spent the weekend together. He asked if I could come for drinks Sunday arvo with his workmates. They are such a great group of people ... We all had a blast. By the end of the night they were saying that if we don't work out I'm still invited to drinks without him ... (Kidding of course). He was the one who asked us to catch up on sat and then spent all day Sunday together through til the Monday morning. It had been a fortnight since I'd seen him (spoke everyday last wee on the phone though) and he said he missed me. It was quite lovely ...
I think he really enjoyed that his friends really liked me. He mentioned a few things they had said. We get along quite well. I'm still aware of what he is going through so I'm letting him direct our contact.
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