+ Reply to Thread
Page 11 of 44 FirstFirst ... 91011121321 ... LastLast
Results 101 to 110 of 435
  1. #101
    Join Date
    Jan 2009
    Posts
    825
    Thanks
    126
    Thanked
    154
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 posts
    Quote Originally Posted by gizmoduckus View Post
    Why don't you just tell him the truth. Tell him that you like him but at the same time you want to give him his space to sort out his feelings from his marriage. That way you don't run the risk of giving him the wrong idea either way.
    Yes, I agree with this. Maybe send a cheeky card and some clever comments about how you feel.

  2. #102
    Join Date
    Mar 2007
    Posts
    5,865
    Thanks
    986
    Thanked
    3,330
    Reviews
    1
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    Thanks ladies

  3. #103
    BH-KatiesMum's Avatar
    BH-KatiesMum is offline Community Manager
    Winner 2008 - The most optimistic poster
    Winner 2014 - Most Helpful Moderator
    Join Date
    Oct 2007
    Location
    Perth WA
    Posts
    22,393
    Thanks
    5,359
    Thanked
    5,806
    Reviews
    3
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 postsEmerald Star - 10,000 postsRuby Star - 15,000 postsDiamond Star - 20,000 posts
    Awards:
    Past Moderator
    200 Posts in a week100 Posts in a week
    I wouldnt do the cheeky or clever stuff - most men dont get subtleties or understand from a vague implication.

    I would perhaps initiate another date ... and sit down and explain where you are at. Explain that you are really interested - but that you have been where he is and realise that he needs space and time to sort himself out - and that you are prepared to wait.

    That taking things slowly doesnt mean that you arent interested - it means you are.




    (oh - and )

  4. The Following 7 Users Say Thank You to BH-KatiesMum For This Useful Post:

    Apple iPhart6  (28-07-2014),babygirl7  (18-07-2014),CakeyMumma  (18-07-2014),FrothyFrog  (18-07-2014),giveitago  (23-07-2014),SHAELEEJANE  (20-07-2014),sjay  (18-08-2014)

  5. #104
    Join Date
    Sep 2010
    Posts
    2,878
    Thanks
    351
    Thanked
    1,434
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    Quote Originally Posted by gizmoduckus View Post
    Why don't you just tell him the truth. Tell him that you like him but at the same time you want to give him his space to sort out his feelings from his marriage. That way you don't run the risk of giving him the wrong idea either way.
    Agree with this.

    P.S half through reading all this and with all the sexual tension I felt like I needed a cigarette and I don't even smoke lol

  6. The Following 5 Users Say Thank You to loodle For This Useful Post:

    babygirl7  (18-07-2014),CakeyMumma  (18-07-2014),Gothel  (18-07-2014),Mokeybear  (18-07-2014),Purple Lily  (18-07-2014)

  7. #105
    Join Date
    Mar 2011
    Location
    Brisbane
    Posts
    3,165
    Thanks
    2,773
    Thanked
    2,282
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    Quote Originally Posted by BH-KatiesMum View Post
    I wouldnt do the cheeky or clever stuff - most men dont get subtleties or understand from a vague implication.

    I would perhaps initiate another date ... and sit down and explain where you are at. Explain that you are really interested - but that you have been where he is and realise that he needs space and time to sort himself out - and that you are prepared to wait.

    That taking things slowly doesnt mean that you arent interested - it means you are.




    (oh - and )
    I agree with all of this

  8. The Following User Says Thank You to CakeyMumma For This Useful Post:

    babygirl7  (18-07-2014)

  9. #106
    Join Date
    Mar 2007
    Posts
    5,865
    Thanks
    986
    Thanked
    3,330
    Reviews
    1
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    Well we had a great chat on the phone last night. He wants to catch up this week but I have my boys and I don't want anyone new to be around them ... But I have a few hours without them before I catch a flight on Thurs. So he offered to drive to me the airport so we can catch up for a bit.

    We spoke a little about how I was wary as he had just come out of a relationship and he said the same. He's been talking about me a lot to his friends though and I can tell he is interested but I think it's in our best interest not to rush into anything. The fact that we both share custody of our kids means that we can really only catch up one weekend a fortnight so I think that's a good thing in taking things slowly.

    So I'm quite happy with how things are travelling

  10. The Following 16 Users Say Thank You to Theboys&me For This Useful Post:

    Apple iPhart6  (28-07-2014),babygirl7  (21-07-2014),BH-KatiesMum  (21-07-2014),CakeyMumma  (21-07-2014),Funnels  (21-07-2014),GirlsRock  (21-07-2014),gizmoduckus  (21-07-2014),GrabbyCrabby  (28-07-2014),HeavenBlue  (30-07-2014),Jontu  (21-07-2014),LifeInShadesOfGrey  (21-07-2014),MummaPanda  (21-07-2014),Purple Lily  (21-07-2014),SpecialPatrolGroup  (21-07-2014),SuperGranny  (21-07-2014),Surprisetimes2  (22-07-2014)

  11. #107
    BH-KatiesMum's Avatar
    BH-KatiesMum is offline Community Manager
    Winner 2008 - The most optimistic poster
    Winner 2014 - Most Helpful Moderator
    Join Date
    Oct 2007
    Location
    Perth WA
    Posts
    22,393
    Thanks
    5,359
    Thanked
    5,806
    Reviews
    3
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 postsEmerald Star - 10,000 postsRuby Star - 15,000 postsDiamond Star - 20,000 posts
    Awards:
    Past Moderator
    200 Posts in a week100 Posts in a week
    thats awesome hun


  12. The Following User Says Thank You to BH-KatiesMum For This Useful Post:

    Theboys&me  (21-07-2014)

  13. #108
    Join Date
    Mar 2007
    Posts
    5,865
    Thanks
    986
    Thanked
    3,330
    Reviews
    1
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    Hmmm spoke to him again tonight - I think I'm becoming smitten

  14. The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to Theboys&me For This Useful Post:

    Apple iPhart6  (28-07-2014),CakeyMumma  (21-07-2014),Purple Lily  (21-07-2014)

  15. #109
    Join Date
    Mar 2007
    Posts
    5,865
    Thanks
    986
    Thanked
    3,330
    Reviews
    1
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    But I don't want to be :/ lol

  16. #110
    Join Date
    Jun 2008
    Location
    NSW
    Posts
    2,354
    Thanks
    165
    Thanked
    531
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 posts
    Enjoy you deserve it....

    Sent from my GT-I9505 using The Bub Hub mobile app

  17. The Following User Says Thank You to RuffledPansy For This Useful Post:

    Theboys&me  (23-07-2014)


 

Similar Threads

  1. Changing Parenting Payment Partnered
    By Coop8818 in forum Family Finances
    Replies: 7
    Last Post: 27-06-2014, 08:00
  2. Replies: 52
    Last Post: 13-06-2014, 15:44
  3. For married/ partnered posters only.
    By sunnyflower in forum General Chat
    Replies: 53
    Last Post: 13-06-2014, 07:30

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
free weekly newsletters | sign up now!
who are these people who write great posts? meet our hubbub authors!
Learn how you can contribute to the hubbub!

reviews
learn how you can become a reviewer!

competitions

forum - chatting now
christmas gift guidesee all Red Stocking
Babybee Prams
Save $50 in our pre-Christmas sale! All Comet's now only $500. Our bassinet & stroller set includes free shipping AUS wide, $75 free accessories, 18-months warranty & a 9 month free return policy. Check out our new designer range today!
sales & new stuffsee all
The Health Hub
Give a new mum a fitness boost for Christmas & New Year. Studio-based, small group training sessions - cardio, strength, core, Pilates & boxing. Choice of 16 hrs per week, flexible-arrival feature - bubs & kids welcome! Gift vouchers available.
featured supporter
The MAMA Centre
Pregnancy, birth & beyond care with your very own midwife. Home & hospital birth support, VBACs, antenatal & postnatal care by medicare eligible midwives & holistic health practitioners. Massage, chiro, naturopathy, yoga, counselling & beauty therapy
gotcha
X

Pregnant for the first-time?

Not sure where to start? We can help!

Our Insider Programs for pregnancy first-timers will lead you step-by-step through the 14 Pregnancy Must Dos!