Hello girls, I need some advice from those who have been around the block with ivf. So we have just come to the end of our first failed IVF stim cycle. We had 13 eggs collected and 9 fertilized with (ICSI and IVF) made it to day 2 and 8 were frozen and 1 transferred. Our clinic thinks day 2 is best (before you say WTF are they doing!)...not what I think is best though! We had only three transfers, last was a double one. The thing is, we lost 5 embies in the thaw process. The lab have told us the first 2 embies were very high grade for day 2. We just don't want to go through it again if there are things that we ought to be ruling out first . Can anyone recommend some questions we can ask of our FS?? we also have a second opinion coming up with Genea. Thanks for any advice!