God this thread has turned petty. Op just wanted to vent. Makes me glad I don't bother posting such threads as I'd just be made to feel worse. Hugs Op.
Sorry you feel that way OP. It probably isn't relevant to your case but I know of a couple who had long-term fertility issues and the bride couldn't bear to see children on her wedding day. I dont think many child-free weddings are for this reason, but I do understand that some people just don't want to deal with other people's children at their events. It can be hurtful if you are a parent.
Pregnant for the first-time?
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