Almost like a cheater projects the assumption of cheating on their partner, DP projects that I am not a good and honest person on me.
We have had a massive argument over the last couple of days. I called him to ask if he was alright, and rather than being grateful that I was concerned or even cordial with me, he just started projecting all this stuff at me that I in no way feel. He thinks I am nasty, I don't care about him and that I need to stop pretending to care.
When he doesn't love himself, how do I get him to see the good and loving person I am?
Even if we were to fully separate, I would want nothing but the best for him. Yes, it would be hard, but I truly want people to be happy.