I am a go with flow parent on most things.
My kids under the age of 3 sleep when they are tired. No schedule as such. They sleep anywhere and everywhere.
Over 3 and you get a bed time. Starting at 7 pm. I am strict on bed time. We don't go out on weeknights (sun to thurs) unless it a special occasion (very rare). Weekends and holidays we are strict if we are home but if we are out we don't worry so much. We aren't people that go out at night much so let them enjoy it when we do.
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