After my ex and I separated, he moved a 12hour drive away and didn't see dd for a year. About three months ago he started seeing her again for one weekend a month (the entire weekend- so three days).
He's told me that he regrets his decision to move away and not see her for a year and he wishes he could go back in time and tell himself to grow up.
He has been saying lately that he'd like to help out with dd more and has asked if I would consider moving either to where he is now, or moving to a mutually agreed upon town. Not immediately, but sometime in the next 6-12 months.
For his work, he has to be on the coast (boating), my line of work is fairly flexible and I think I could find employment anywhere (although I wouldn't move without lining up a job first).
So would you do it? Or at least consider it? What would be your pros and cons?